Women

July 11, 2014

WATCH: The dangers of comparing domestic violence between men and women

A while ago, a domestic abuse advert by the ‘Man Kind Initiative’ was uploaded on YouTube. The advert was produced by the charity to highlight that violence does in fact occur against men, such as domestic abuse. Although the cause is righteous, the video seemed to do a comparison between male and female domestic violence. The video contained a somewhat social experiment conducted in London in an open public space with hidden cameras. The actors who took part used aggressive language and gestures towards each other to gain a reaction from the public and then the role reversed. The video stated that during the one minute and 50 second video clearly showed that the public were more sympathetic towards the female victim than the male. It is that comparison which is uncomfortable to bear.

Although the campaign’s hashtag ‘violenceisviolence‘ showed that there is no hierarchy in oppression, the video’s message could be perceived as comparing violence against genders, contradicting their own purpose of the hashtag. Men’s rights should also be championed and anyone who is experiencing violence should easily be able to receive the necessary help.

The figure shown in the description of the video that 40% of domestic violence in the UK is against men, however it fails to recognise that men are more at risk if within a same sex relationship.

Comparison should never be derived in such matters because “women make up 89 per cent of those who experience four or more incidents of domestic violence” as stated by Polly Neate, Executive of Women’s Aid.

Overall, there is no doubt ‘Man Kind Initiative‘ is a relevant cause, however by using the techniques of comparison it shows a bleak future for irradiating domestic violence for the different genders. It is important to acknowledge that a hierarchy oppression should not exist and that all forms of oppression are relevant. Simply by conducting social experiments without a plausible hypothesis can lead to uncertainties especially when videos can easily become viral. 

The comparison between the role reversal of domestic abuse will never help to undermine the misogyny, sexism and unfairness experienced by women or men.



About the Author

Nuzhat Fatima
Nuzhat is a 20-year old undergraduate student from England, currently studying Politics at Loughborough and is about to go on a year abroad to study in Germany. Disillusioned by the 'lad culture' which dominates her University, she decided to help launch the first ever Women's association to support campaigns which promote gender equality and women's liberation in all aspects of University life. Her interests have been inspired by the 'Black Women's Forum UK' and NUS black students conferences which sparked a passion for seeking liberation for the politically black. This is where the interest in women's rights and other forms of oppression combined to create enthusiasm for intersectionality. In her spare time Nuzhat enjoys poetry, art and music.




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